Good Morning!!!
I am wide awake and wishing I was still dreaming in my bed! Scott woke up early.. he seemed to be feeling a little better but I think he still feels bad. I think some of it is exhaustion from the long drive to get Zane..Part of it is his long hours that he has to work.. The Dr. also changed up some of his medication and I think that is making him kinda sick too.. =( But at least he looked a little better today. Its also his day off but because he was home a lot yesterday, he is going in for a few hours.. then coming home and playing with the kids. Its suppose to rain all afternoon so I don't think going to the pool tonight for family night swim is going to happen. I think he might take them all to the movies later instead. Which will be nice because I am pretty sure that Zane wished he had more time with his dad yesterday!
Speaking of Zane.. he is doing great! He loves playing games.. eats like a horse ( same as Jackson ), gets along great with the other kids and even hugged and kissed me goodnight for the first time last night. It was precious! I was a little hesitant at first to toss another child in our loud crazy but loving home.. but he fits right in! =) He has a lot of brothers and sisters and at his moms hes the oldest but its funny because he is the youngest. Yesterday when Jackson realized that.. he said..
" But mom.. I am the baby. You said I will always be your baby." I had to explain that yes.. Jackson is my baby but there is in fact a younger boy here now.. and he is also my baby!
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I have to say.. that having a step mom who to say the least.. was not too nice to me growing up.. taught me EVERYTHING about how Not to treat a step child. I might have some private thoughts that are only for my husband on all my kids.. not just a step child but I would never treat a child the way she treated me. Never. Instead, my home is open to ALL our kids at anytime.. and they are treated just the same as any other child running around here. I think with people like my step mom.. don't realize that the kids that they are insulting and hurting are going to grow up one day.. and for me.. pain and hurt are my deepest loudest memories. Its about making a family.. and its not always the way you plan. I have learned though that sometimes the plan you have is great.. God has a greater one for you than the one you made. ♥
I have been working really hard around here to not worry as much about the house and spend time with the kids. That's not easy for me to do.. because I hate a messy house but they need me more than the house does. I use to judge those mothers who would let there kids outside in mismatched clothes.. maybe mismatched socks.. but not anymore. I am doing good to get all 3 kids out of the house in clothes.. let alone all matching clothes. I use to judge a dirty house.. but sometimes a dirty house means thats a good mom. Things change when you have kids. Durning the fall.. most of the time the kids go back to their other houses for school.. so the house is really clean most days. Then the kids invade.. and it takes everything I have to keep up with laundry, dishes, and picking up.. let alone taking care of the animals + the kids! I do try to stay up on it as much as I can but most big products around here need to wait till Jackson is back in school and Brittany and Zane go back. In my eyes its more important to to make good memories instead of having a spotless house!
Ok.. on to some gossip.. Last night a friend put this on my page as a INSIDE JOKE.. I woke up to a few facebook messages asking if I was talking about them!! Ha! Well, ummmm.. NO but if you think this might be for you.. maybe that is something that needs to be addressed.
What is going on is a friend has sucked in by a home wreckers spell. Really simple.
Let me be clear..
AGAIN.. IF THEY CHEAT TO BE WITH YOU THEY WILL CHEAT ON YOU..
I had issues with some home wreckers myself and I think its disgusting when another woman does that to a family and a home. They made it clear that they didn't think there was a home to wreck in the first place so it was ok that they cheated with a man who was involved and when there was kids around. I wonder if the cheating man is who told her there was no home to wreck. Funny.. there was a home because I was there many days.. and it was a home to the kids and to my friend. I will never feel ok about a woman doing that to another woman.. So if you caught the chatter on facebook.. then understand we were just having some fun because this situation has brought a lot of sadness and we needed to laugh.. Please don't think it was about YOU.... but the 2 emails I got this morning has the same first name as home wrecker! ! Ha! Nope friends.. this is a Shelby NC girl.. ( not a respectful woman but really a teeny bopper girl who is in her 20's who acts like she is 15 ) So please know.. we were just having some fun.. and I just wish this was posted on her page. But she needs no reminding from me or anyone else. I am sure every time he is not in sight.. not answering his phone.. acting strange.. she will wondering if he is doing the same thing to her. Because thats how it works. And this little E Card fits like a puzzle piece. Family means everything.. go around screwing with other families.. and I promise you that you will be hated as bad as Casey Anthony. You just don't do that.
Anyway... this is who woke me up this morning..
I have at times been really upset at this dog when he picks on the cats but he is so sweet most of the time. Look at that face? How can you not love it??
Anyway.. my long morning chat has went on long enough.. going to work on some coupon posts and get going with my day!
xoox
K Jaggers
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